Thursday, February 05, 2009
a random thought.
HuiWen told me ytd that Mark posted a meaningful post, so yeahs, read it just now. what i say may not be related or linked, but as the title says, its just my random thoughts.
i think its meaningful as it really makes me ponder a lil about life. that how we shouldnt force things to happen, how efforts/hardworks vanish into the thin air. a quote from his blog;
however, during my quiet time at night, i got my questions/wonders answered.
if i nvr give it a try, i'll nvr know if i would succeed.
if i nvr give it a try, i'll nvr know if my efforts is appreciated or not.
if the other party gives up and i give up as well, the friendship/relationship will nvr ever gonna work out.
though we might know that the results might be negative, but believing and trying out, you'll nvr know that you might actually succeed. success come after failure, even Albert Einstein experience failures in his life before succeeding.
i do agree that knowing the result is negative, giving a try makes ourselves end up with just disappointments after disappointments. and at the end of the day, we ourselves will be the only one suffering.
and the last question i'm asking myself, should i be giving up that unappreciated friendship when she doesnt really care and even backstabs? a totally fake friendship....
a totally random thoughts about different things...
i think its meaningful as it really makes me ponder a lil about life. that how we shouldnt force things to happen, how efforts/hardworks vanish into the thin air. a quote from his blog;
"明明是沒有結論的結果~爲何還要苦苦哀求~辛辛苦苦建立起的感情~到頭來還是落空~苦了自己得吞下所有的事~傷心的面對自己"
its says that knowing there's no result, why should we be harping on things? putting so much efforts in building up a relationship which end up with nothing, we'll end up suffering alone.reading this made me thought of why should i waste time on things thats unappreciated? why should i waste time working on a friendship/relationship thats nvr seem to be working out? knowing the negative results, why should i even thought of giving it a try?
however, during my quiet time at night, i got my questions/wonders answered.
if i nvr give it a try, i'll nvr know if i would succeed.
if i nvr give it a try, i'll nvr know if my efforts is appreciated or not.
if the other party gives up and i give up as well, the friendship/relationship will nvr ever gonna work out.
though we might know that the results might be negative, but believing and trying out, you'll nvr know that you might actually succeed. success come after failure, even Albert Einstein experience failures in his life before succeeding.
i do agree that knowing the result is negative, giving a try makes ourselves end up with just disappointments after disappointments. and at the end of the day, we ourselves will be the only one suffering.
and the last question i'm asking myself, should i be giving up that unappreciated friendship when she doesnt really care and even backstabs? a totally fake friendship....
a totally random thoughts about different things...
i stopped by at, 12:19 AM.
